Joe Uvalles II as "Beatrix LeStrange" |
As a 4 year old kid on Union Avenue in Seattle, I walked to the corner grocery to spend my nickel, either on an ice cream cone or a roll of red "caps" that would pop on the sidewalk when hit with a rock.
One day, I saw a tall black man wearing a dress and I ran into the house to ask my mother: "Why is that man wearing a dress?"
My mother simply said: "Don't look at him!" never answering my question.
Admittedly, in the 50's we used words that are now unacceptable to describe people; retard, spastic and homo.
Use of the word "queer" was also discouraged n polite society, but now that word is embraced.
Pastor Ali Lopez |
Uvalles(Beatrix), the organizer, tried to stop me from taking pictures in a public venue for a public event, sponsored by H.E.B., the Community Development Corporation, Planned Parenthood of South Texas, the Brownsville Jaycees and the ACLU, among others.(I wonder what the ACLU would have thought about Uvalles/Beatrix's attempt to stifle my right to free speech via photo journalism?)
Uvalles' rationale for interfering with my work is his claim that I'd used the word transvestite in a story.
Since the event, Uvalles has more clearly stated his objection to my "writing" via Facebook:
Uvalles: "I’m sorry but I did not consent to these photos. You and this blogger have a history of transphobic and problematic language online and on blogs and simply asked Mr Barton to stop taking photos out of respect for the community present."
Eventually, I learned that Uvalles' concern was about a story I wrote about two drag queens performing at La Movidita over a year ago in which I described them as transvestites.
trans·ves·tite/transˈvesˌtīt,tranzˈvesˌtīt/
noun: transvestite; plural noun: transvestites
a person, typically a man, who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes primarily associated with the opposite sex.
I've since learned that the LGBTQ community prefers the term transgender or the ambiguous non-word trans.
Of course, the word transgender concerns a person's sense of sexual identity, something I can't determine simply seeing a man in a dress or a woman in men's garb. I'm not a mental health professional and make no claim to having made a psychological analysis.
Here's my response on Facebook to Uvalles:
Joe. . you may lack the perspective of time, but all these words have cycled in and out of acceptability. Queer and gay are now acceptable, but, in previous years not so much. A transvestite is simply by definition someone who enjoys dressing in the characteristic clothes of the opposite gender, thus not a boogie word at all. As for the pics, your permission is not needed for a public event in a public place and wasn't requested.
Juan Fidencio Trevino,
Brownsville Bright
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Good Afternoon Mr. Barton,
As possibly the newest local Brownsville blogger, I wanted to thank you for being a part of the reason why I became interested in this field. The way you use your voice to inform people is inspiring, and I hope to emulate that effectiveness in Brownsville Bright. Consider me a friendly face. I hope we can both be positive influences to our city."
Juan Fidencio Trevino
The irony is that I've consistently supported and promoted events by the LBGTQ community and will continue to do so. My attitude, as always: Live and let live!
Fags are so sensitive
ReplyDeleteUvalles a spiteful and self-righteous hypocrite who will never miss a chance to attack whomever may disagree with him. It’s a shame that he of all people is one of the leading advocates for the LGBT community, for they ought to have someone level-headed and tolerant of other people. You’re not the first one to be disproportionately slighted by him for an honest mistake, and you won’t be the last. Keep on bloggin’ Jim, don’t let a fool get in the way of your honest work.
ReplyDeleteWho damaged them as children?
ReplyDeleteHEY, JIM, I THINK TRANSVESTITE IS THE CORRECT WORD TO USE ON THESE CABRONES.....LOOK AT THE DEFINITION MAMON!!!! PUTOS THAT DERIVE PLEASURE OF DRESSING LIKE A PINCHE WOMAN CULLERS!!!! QUE LBGQ NI QUE MIS HUEVOS!!! BUT SINCE YOU ARE ON THE SUBJECT PINCHE BARTON!!! THERE OIS NO ONE WHO TOOK IT IN THE CULO HARDER THIS PAST ELECTION THAN LITTLE PINCHE GADFLY ROMAN PEREZ, MAMON!! THE POOR OJETE CANT BUY A PINCHGE BREAK, CULERO!!! HE WANTS TO RUN AGAINST RICK LONGORIA BECAUSE HE SAID THAT RICK WASN'T WORTH A SHIT!!! BUT THEN GETS HIS PINCHE PANTIES UP HIS CULO BECAUSE GOLANSKY GETS IN THE RACE, MAMON!!! SO WHAT DOES THE LITTLE PUTO DO?!!! HE SUPPORTS RICK LONGORIA MAMON!!! ME CAGO LOS HUEVOS, CABRON!!!! I WISH PINCHE ROMAN WOULD LET TRHE PEOPLE OF THIS PINCHE TOWN WHAT HE IS OJETE!!! ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN PINCHE ROMAN??!!! WE CANT TELL MAMON!!! ARE YOU LBGQK, TRANSVESTITE, ...GIVE US A PINCHE HINT MAMON!!! BAJATE LOS CHONES PARA VER QUE CHINGADOS ERES PINCHER GUEY!!!! UUUUYYYYYYY! ARRIBA MRS. DOUBTFIRE OJETES!!!!
ReplyDeleteLIC. MACLOVIO O'MALLEY
Shut the fuck up, Cris !!! Your stupid act is yesteryear, pendejo!
DeleteNo tienes juicio, baboso
Diles la verdad Maclovio. Chingalos. El que se calienta es porque le dolio. Tu sigueles diciendo la verdad. Aguantense cabrones. No lloren culeros.
DeleteJim what you encountered is the reality in the LGBTQ+ community. None of this is new. I will tell you with certainty that I know transvestites and drag queens who took offense you calling the terms homophobic. The problem is any group can organize and call themselves the voice of the community when in fact all they do is speak for themselves. But there are those who consider the terms homophobic. The reasoning is too long and complex for a post. Language is a landmine on this topic. There is no winning. When I deal with groups in advising them I tell them upfront tell me how you want to be described so I know the safe words. I have lost this battle far too many times and have actually let them have it. You may politely correct someone to the term you prefer but you cannot attack them until they continue to use the wrong term. It has become so complex I know of several people who would be known as male to female transgender [I do not like the word transgender because it implies a transition. I do not subscribe to the notion gender requires a specific genitalia so I see women who have penis to be 100% female and men with vaginas to be 100% male] I actually work with families wherein their transgender child refuses to speak with the family because the family sees them as transgender instead of just male or female. I can tell you there are groups who attack this subgroup as being traders. It is not for me or anyone else to tell anyone how to identify themselves. This subgroups feels the label diminishes the fact they were born female with a penis or male with a vagina. Terminology in this field is like Texas weather, if you do not like it wait a minute because it will change.
ReplyDeleteHey Bobby stop being too chickenshit to post the comments to your own articles!! Coming on Jim's blog when you are too chickenshit to respond to comments on your own blog? You are a moron. What was that weird shit you posted yesterday, were you on your meds or off your meds, no one can tell dude! Are you for the gays or for Jessica's dumbass flyers against the gays? You are a fucking wack job man!
DeleteHe seems to forever wander across the dictionary, like some retard unable to make sense of any topic. His blog is dead.
DeleteVote for the sodomy guy!
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