Teresa Saldivar, Interim Chairperson of CCDW |
Following Ana and Laura to a back room at the restaurant, I saw local activist Teresa Saldivar and four women I did not know sitting at a long table.
"Laura, will you introduce yourself to the group?" asked Saldivar, who then asked my wife Ana to say a few words.
While not called upon, I introduced myself anyway.
"I'm Jim Barton, the editor of the Brownsville Observer, covering local politics and government for the last nine years."
It was then that the proverbial excrement hit the fan.
"We don't normally invite men to these meetings," stated one of the members.
"Yes, last month, we had a man show up," added Mrs. Saldivar.
"I won't give you his name. He got quite irate when we explained our policy. He claimed to have been a Treasurer for the local Democratic Party, but I could find nothing about him in the records." (After the meeting, Saldivar told me the banished male was Jeffrey Duvall, who I remembered had been a local Democratic official.)
"In fact, we only support women candidates," continued Saldivar.
That statement got the attention of the youngest member of the five women group, a young Hispanic with two well-behaved children at an adjacent table.
"So what would we do if we had a male candidate who was pro-choice and a female candidate, running for the same office, who was pro-life?" asked the young woman.
"We couldn't support the man," answered Saldivar.
As the meeting broke up, the woman who'd objected to my presence came up to me.
"Please don't take it personal. I'm actually married to an old white man."
On the ride home we discussed the concept of excluding men from a group promoting women's issues. Neither Laura nor Ana thought that was a good idea.